Once again from the turgid sea of content that is Tumblr, I bring you something relevant to my interests.
In response to your “Respect Gender Pronouns” post. I can respect the proper pronouns, but not everyone knows them or is able to tell what someone is. I don’t like it when people get seriously offended when they are called the wrong pronoun by someone that they don’t even know. How is that person supposed to know what you want to be called?
Can there be respect for ignorance too? For those that are old fashioned or just plain unaware of new pronouns?
Respect ignorance. That’ll be a bumper sticker any minute now.
Iridessence’s excellent answer: “You should probably ask a trans person, since even if it were my place to answer, I’m not sure how to.”
It didn’t actually address the asker’s concerns, though, so here’s my answer, edited slightly for clarity.
I’m female-leaning genderfluid who was born female and passes as female. It ain’t my place to speak for everyone, and I have a shitton of privilege and am sort of waffly on where exactly I fit in, so I don’t know if I can rightly put forth an opinion on behalf of trans* folks, but I have to say, as a member of other marginalized groups:
“Can there be respect for ignorance, too?”
NO. Indulgence and possibly understanding, and respect for the people themselves, but for the actual ignorance, no, not ever, NEVER, respect. You do not respect ignorance. Ignorance is the water that passively allows the poison of hate to fucking spread, and as it is harmful, it is not something that compels respect. Continue reading